i have a sister who has a son. he is 37 years old, and an arsenal supporting sponge. he still lives at home with his mummy & daddy. he hasn't worked a proper day in his life. he is currently 'studying' electronics 3 days a week. he works 3 days nights in a bar in town. he gets shyte wages, but makes a small fortune in tips. he has a 26 year old girlfriend, who he met on holiday in spain where she was a topless waitress. got tits like watermelons. he worked for a while with his father, till he kicked him pout for not being there often enough. my sister asked if i could take him & work for me, but he is under qualified to even answer a phone. nor does he have the temperament to work on a regular basis; i doubt he knows there are two 10 o'clocks in the day. anyway, my sister asked if he could come & stay with us for a while over the summer holidays, as all he would do back home is sleep most of the day, and smoke illegal substances a bit if the day, and drink the rest of the day. my wife is less than happy having him anywhere near our girls, let alone living in our flat. we also live with my wife's parents, who would not approve of unmarried couple in the place. old fashioned catholics.... i will have my mum over here for 3 weeks in the summer when the kids are off, which is perfectly fine, but having him mope around the place like a lost zombie is not what i want. problem is, because my sister has asked, it means there are some additional issues that i don't know about, otherwise she would have had him there regardless. he is a lazy c*nt, i don't really have much time for him true, if he was my son i would have kicked his rrs into shape years ago, and he would be working doing something instead of having gone his whole life studying meaningless courses & never having worked a proper job in his life. if my sister wants him this way, then fair enough to them, but should i feel obliged to have him over here to ruin our summer? we have some plans to go places, and do things, and i don't have a problem leaving them alone in the flat, but do i really want this responsibility & headache? he will want to drive a car - he doesn't have a very good driving record & will not drive any of our cars. i just don't want him to ruin my summer & me get in a strop with my sister, but i need to find a subtle & acceptable way of saying no. i want to skype with her later today, so any thoughts on my total unreasonableness, lousy uncle attitude, and anything else is wanted. i don't want him here, and it seems my sister wants him out the house for the summer too, as she has asked me to put him up. your thoughts gentlemen please. | |