| Ted Hendrix / RIP 14:46 - Oct 27 with 12817 views | Charlie1 |
Hi everyone,
Been a long time since I posted so for those who know / remember me, I hope you are all well.
My brother and I Dad, Ted Hendrix, who was a frequent poster and known to many on here over god knows how many years, passed away yesterday in the early hours. My mum, brother and I were all with him at the end. Candidly, he did suffer for a couple of weeks and it was a difficult period for us all, but the last few days he wasn’t suffering. He was content and comfortable despite the cancer.
Dad loved his club. His hero’s all played in the 60’s and 70’s when he was a kid growing up and causing mischief in west London.
A brief story. Fathers / mothers obviously introduce siblings to their football clubs (or mental torture if you support QPR). Dad took me to Loftus Road in 86 for my first game against Liverpool in the Milk cup semi final. No idea when he inflicted it on my younger brother!
I stopped going a few years back. Fell out of love with the game and found the Redknapp era awful ie players we signed and we lost sight of who we had become. In addition, my wife and I had a family which was my priority.
When we became aware that Dad may not have long left, I took my two girls to Loftus Road for the first time, against Preston last month. In the back of my mind I thought it would be a no brainer. Few away fans, easy win etc. At half time I had two bored kids, tired and thinking what on earth is this, two down and ten men on the pitch. There is something special about Loftus Road when the lights come on, and when there is something more, deeper meaning to it all. Sure enough, the second half was magical. I did tell my girls numerous times that supporting QPR is massive highs and lows (typically lows). They loved it.
The day after, they spent time with Dad for the last time (we didn’t know that at the time but I’m sure you can read between the lines re health deteriorating). Therein a conversation about QPR over the years and generations talking shop. And we gave him a program and A kick up the R’s. Somethings are meant to be.
I’m aware many of you have asked for updates and probably contacted Dad. My brother Paul and I want to thank you all for your thoughts, best wishes and friendship over the years. This message board meant a lot to him, especially the last few years as he had a few health issues.
Thanks again for the well wishes and support. Take care all.
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 07:56 - Oct 29 with 757 views | loneranger1 |
Sorry to hear your news - condolences to your family, and may Ted rest in peace.
Best wishes |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:04 - Oct 29 with 629 views | jimf |
Sad news, go well Ted, RIP. All the love and support to you and your family Dave and Paul.
Hope you get comfort from the Rs and bringing your daughters to the game again and the family remains part of the tribe online and in person. Although I have to admit we've never got results when I needed it personally in similar circumstances.
One useful bit of practical advice - get as many original copies of the death certificate as you can. Everyone seems to want an original. And ignore the rest of the advice you are given, most of it is bunkum, grieve how you want. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:20 - Oct 29 with 579 views | Orthodox_Hoop |
My deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to you and your family Charlie. RIP Ted. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 10:46 - Oct 29 with 422 views | francisbowles |
Charlie, I am very sorry for your loss, condolences to all your family.
I never knew your Dad apart from reading his often very witty comments on this board. I will miss Ted for that as will the vast majority on here as demonstrated by the so far six pages in reply to your message.
It's sad to hear that Ted suffered but good to know he was comforted by you all and calm at the final whistle.
RIP [Post edited 29 Oct 10:47]
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 11:15 - Oct 29 with 362 views | DavieQPR |
Never met him but he came across as a character. Condolences to the family. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 13:17 - Oct 29 with 168 views | SonofNorfolt |
Dave,
I can't elaborate on what has already been said, except to reiterate that he was funny old bugger.
Sad.
You R's
Mel |  | | |
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