| Ted Hendrix / RIP 14:46 - Oct 27 with 17248 views | Charlie1 |
Hi everyone,
Been a long time since I posted so for those who know / remember me, I hope you are all well.
My brother and I Dad, Ted Hendrix, who was a frequent poster and known to many on here over god knows how many years, passed away yesterday in the early hours. My mum, brother and I were all with him at the end. Candidly, he did suffer for a couple of weeks and it was a difficult period for us all, but the last few days he wasn’t suffering. He was content and comfortable despite the cancer.
Dad loved his club. His hero’s all played in the 60’s and 70’s when he was a kid growing up and causing mischief in west London.
A brief story. Fathers / mothers obviously introduce siblings to their football clubs (or mental torture if you support QPR). Dad took me to Loftus Road in 86 for my first game against Liverpool in the Milk cup semi final. No idea when he inflicted it on my younger brother!
I stopped going a few years back. Fell out of love with the game and found the Redknapp era awful ie players we signed and we lost sight of who we had become. In addition, my wife and I had a family which was my priority.
When we became aware that Dad may not have long left, I took my two girls to Loftus Road for the first time, against Preston last month. In the back of my mind I thought it would be a no brainer. Few away fans, easy win etc. At half time I had two bored kids, tired and thinking what on earth is this, two down and ten men on the pitch. There is something special about Loftus Road when the lights come on, and when there is something more, deeper meaning to it all. Sure enough, the second half was magical. I did tell my girls numerous times that supporting QPR is massive highs and lows (typically lows). They loved it.
The day after, they spent time with Dad for the last time (we didn’t know that at the time but I’m sure you can read between the lines re health deteriorating). Therein a conversation about QPR over the years and generations talking shop. And we gave him a program and A kick up the R’s. Somethings are meant to be.
I’m aware many of you have asked for updates and probably contacted Dad. My brother Paul and I want to thank you all for your thoughts, best wishes and friendship over the years. This message board meant a lot to him, especially the last few years as he had a few health issues.
Thanks again for the well wishes and support. Take care all.
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 07:56 - Oct 29 with 2477 views | loneranger1 |
Sorry to hear your news - condolences to your family, and may Ted rest in peace.
Best wishes |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:04 - Oct 29 with 2350 views | jimf |
Sad news, go well Ted, RIP. All the love and support to you and your family Dave and Paul.
Hope you get comfort from the Rs and bringing your daughters to the game again and the family remains part of the tribe online and in person. Although I have to admit we've never got results when I needed it personally in similar circumstances.
One useful bit of practical advice - get as many original copies of the death certificate as you can. Everyone seems to want an original. And ignore the rest of the advice you are given, most of it is bunkum, grieve how you want. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:20 - Oct 29 with 2288 views | Orthodox_Hoop |
My deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to you and your family Charlie. RIP Ted. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 10:46 - Oct 29 with 2143 views | francisbowles |
Charlie, I am very sorry for your loss, condolences to all your family.
I never knew your Dad apart from reading his often very witty comments on this board. I will miss Ted for that as will the vast majority on here as demonstrated by the so far six pages in reply to your message.
It's sad to hear that Ted suffered but good to know he was comforted by you all and calm at the final whistle.
RIP [Post edited 29 Oct 10:47]
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 11:15 - Oct 29 with 2069 views | DavieQPR |
Never met him but he came across as a character. Condolences to the family. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 13:17 - Oct 29 with 1889 views | SonofNorfolt |
Dave,
I can't elaborate on what has already been said, except to reiterate that he was funny old bugger.
Sad.
You R's
Mel |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 17:31 - Oct 29 with 1592 views | stevenagehoop |
RIP Ted remember you well from original rivals board and you didn’t change. Condolences to all your family |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 17:31 - Oct 29 with 1592 views | marky67 |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 00:43 - Oct 29 by Sharpy36 |
Hello Dave.
Although no longer a poster here i drop by once in awhile to catch up on things. I had the greatest of pleasure meeting up with you and Dad on many, many occasions along with the other Rivals tribe. Happy times, with great memories. I`m the one from Maidstone Marky.
God bless you all Dave, and R.I.P Ted. |
sharpy that was it, sorry been a few years and the old memory is not as it was 
hope you are keeping well | | | |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 20:23 - Oct 29 with 1418 views | Toast_R |
RIP Ted,
Sorry for your loss and I'm sure all regular posters are thinking of you. Your dad's QPR tales, musings and humor will be remembered by us all. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 23:33 - Oct 29 with 1242 views | bob566 |
RIP to a true qpr man Ted. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 08:58 - Oct 30 with 953 views | SW_Ranger |
Sorry to hear of your loss Charlie, sincere condolences to you and all Ted’s family, close friends and hoops friends. I’m sure all those memories will warm your heart for years to come while you all deal with your loss. RIP Ted. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 10:12 - Oct 30 with 876 views | MancR |
What a lovely tribute to Ted. RIP | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 13:58 - Oct 30 with 679 views | wombat |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 10:12 - Oct 30 by MancR |
What a lovely tribute to Ted. RIP |
Thanks for the update , even though we knew it was coming it still hits hard
spent many a pre match with ted smoking , swearing , and trying to put the world to rights , He was one of a kind ,
Best wishes to you and the family at thie time |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 16:15 - Oct 30 with 519 views | CheshireR |
Such sad news.
Ted's comments on here were usually spot on. I empathised with many of his views, particularly about the modern game.
His love for the R's and his family always shone through - along with his dislike and contempt for Reading.
Condolences to his family, he will certainly be missed. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 17:48 - Oct 30 with 427 views | Northernr |
Actually had a really nice suggestion emailed into us today.
Given 'Ted v Bale' is a bit of iconic image for the message board...
We could have a thread each year where we post the best QPR-related pics of the season as we go along (Paul Smyth's backflip the other week for instance), and then in May we have a vote for the best QPR pic of the year and have a bit of an award in Ted's honour.
Thoughts?
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 17:53 - Oct 30 with 411 views | BklynRanger |
I'd say that's a fine idea |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 18:01 - Oct 30 with 383 views | BristolR |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 17:53 - Oct 30 by BklynRanger |
I'd say that's a fine idea |
Seconded, lovely idea |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 18:07 - Oct 30 with 352 views | NoDiddley |
RIP fella, always remember you pontificating in the lower loft.
Never seen so many heart felt posts for anyone before, sums it up.
Legend |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 18:52 - Oct 30 with 310 views | Metallica_Hoop |
My condolences to you and the family.
I met Ted once many years ago (when we were trying to figure out if he was Ted and I as Metallica in the lower loft) your dad was a gent and it was a pleasure to meet him.
RIP Ted [Post edited 30 Oct 20:15]
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 19:33 - Oct 30 with 260 views | CiderwithRsie |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 17:48 - Oct 30 by Northernr |
Actually had a really nice suggestion emailed into us today.
Given 'Ted v Bale' is a bit of iconic image for the message board...
We could have a thread each year where we post the best QPR-related pics of the season as we go along (Paul Smyth's backflip the other week for instance), and then in May we have a vote for the best QPR pic of the year and have a bit of an award in Ted's honour.
Thoughts?
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Great idea - there are some terrific photos posted after each match. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 21:15 - Oct 30 with 163 views | FredManRave |
A stand out poster, confirmed by 150 upvotes and pretty much the same number of comments, tells it's story.
I never met him, just had the 1 DM exchange with him about a year ago and even in that you could tell what a stand up, talk straight, family guy he was.
And his posts and rants on here were legendary and obviously resonated with so many of us. And for that he will always be remembered on here.
And, unsurprisingly, it reads like he was the same in the real world.
Condolences to his family and friends.
RIP Ted. You had a profound influence on this Forum and you'll always be Forever R's. |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 21:16 - Oct 30 with 163 views | francisbowles |
That would be a lovely long lasting tribute, Clive. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 21:25 - Oct 30 with 148 views | YorkRanger |
Sad news, RIP Ted and deepest condolences to his family.
The Ted Hendrix award for the photo of the year is a first class idea. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:23 - Oct 30 with 65 views | PeterHucker |
What a great idea Clive, let's do that |  | | |
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