| Ted Hendrix / RIP 14:46 - Oct 27 with 9576 views | Charlie1 |
Hi everyone,
Been a long time since I posted so for those who know / remember me, I hope you are all well.
My brother and I Dad, Ted Hendrix, who was a frequent poster and known to many on here over god knows how many years, passed away yesterday in the early hours. My mum, brother and I were all with him at the end. Candidly, he did suffer for a couple of weeks and it was a difficult period for us all, but the last few days he wasn’t suffering. He was content and comfortable despite the cancer.
Dad loved his club. His hero’s all played in the 60’s and 70’s when he was a kid growing up and causing mischief in west London.
A brief story. Fathers / mothers obviously introduce siblings to their football clubs (or mental torture if you support QPR). Dad took me to Loftus Road in 86 for my first game against Liverpool in the Milk cup semi final. No idea when he inflicted it on my younger brother!
I stopped going a few years back. Fell out of love with the game and found the Redknapp era awful ie players we signed and we lost sight of who we had become. In addition, my wife and I had a family which was my priority.
When we became aware that Dad may not have long left, I took my two girls to Loftus Road for the first time, against Preston last month. In the back of my mind I thought it would be a no brainer. Few away fans, easy win etc. At half time I had two bored kids, tired and thinking what on earth is this, two down and ten men on the pitch. There is something special about Loftus Road when the lights come on, and when there is something more, deeper meaning to it all. Sure enough, the second half was magical. I did tell my girls numerous times that supporting QPR is massive highs and lows (typically lows). They loved it.
The day after, they spent time with Dad for the last time (we didn’t know that at the time but I’m sure you can read between the lines re health deteriorating). Therein a conversation about QPR over the years and generations talking shop. And we gave him a program and A kick up the R’s. Somethings are meant to be.
I’m aware many of you have asked for updates and probably contacted Dad. My brother Paul and I want to thank you all for your thoughts, best wishes and friendship over the years. This message board meant a lot to him, especially the last few years as he had a few health issues.
Thanks again for the well wishes and support. Take care all.
You R’S! |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:14 - Oct 28 with 1353 views | TheChef |
Such sad news. RIP Ted. |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:14 - Oct 28 with 1348 views | R_from_afar |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 21:59 - Oct 27 by enfieldargh |
So sorry to hear this news
Loved all his posts always thought provoking
Will miss his slagging off of Reading who he really did not have a soft spot for
RIP Ted a legend amongst us |
I was just about to mention the way he used to tear into Reading. I loved that!
When I first joined this forum, I was struck by Ted's avatar and his forthright posts. As a fellow guitarist, I enjoyed reading about his guitar collection and playing. I like to think of him up in Heaven, duetting with his idol Jimi.
Sincere condolences to his friends and family, RIP Ted, I'll miss you. |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:16 - Oct 28 with 1339 views | Bluce_Ree |
What was the story behind him naming the site? Did Clive put it out for suggestions? Was the forum called something else before that?
Just wondering how it came about. |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:17 - Oct 28 with 1330 views | kernowhoop |
Thank you. Sad news. He will be missed - here and by his family. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:31 - Oct 28 with 1247 views | Antti_Heinola |
Very sad news indeed. RIP to Ted and condolences to the family. |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 10:35 - Oct 28 with 1067 views | Konk |
Glad that your dad was comfortable at the end and it’s lovely that you were there with him. I’m sure he would have been chuffed to bits to know that your daughters had been along to watch Rangers and that you’d been back to LR. Brilliant that you managed to do that whilst he was still with you. Take care and I hope you’re all doing okay. RIP Ted. |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 10:45 - Oct 28 with 1037 views | daveB |
really sad news. Always enjoyed reading his posts on here, that Bale picture is just iconic, condolences to the family.
RIP Ted |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 10:53 - Oct 28 with 1011 views | Boston |
Ted came a long way, he made it. | |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 11:04 - Oct 28 with 961 views | robith |
Not much to add except my own condolences, and hopefully some solace for you and your family on a life worth remembering |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 11:08 - Oct 28 with 941 views | brewers_hoop |
Very sorry to hear that. Have fond memories of you, your dad, Harlesden etc back in the day. It’s an amazing tribute to your dad and he would be so proud x |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 12:07 - Oct 28 with 793 views | Rs_Holy |
RIP Ted ... and deepest condolences Charlie ... I'm one of those on here who didn't know him, but in reality we all knew him. Part of the fabric of Queens Park Rangers... We will all miss him greatly. [Post edited 28 Oct 12:12]
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 12:12 - Oct 28 with 785 views | dannyblue |
Rest in Peace Ted. My condolences to those who knew and loved him. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 12:33 - Oct 28 with 743 views | gazza1 |
RIP Ted, condolences to your boys & the rest of your family. May you be in peace. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 12:39 - Oct 28 with 723 views | willesdenr |
The 60s and 70s were my time too. RIP Ted and much condolences to the family. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 12:44 - Oct 28 with 712 views | E15Hoop |
His message at the bottom of his posts; "My father had a profound influence on my life. He was a complete lunatic" (Apologies if I've misquoted part of that) always made me chuckle every time I saw it. RIP Ted. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 13:42 - Oct 28 with 576 views | bosh67 |
RIP Ted. You will always be a Forever Loft For Words legend on here. Love to the family, condolences and very fond memories of the one and only Ted. |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 15:04 - Oct 28 with 417 views | thehat |
I never knew Ted personally but always enjoyed his posts on here.
Some wonderful tributes from the people who knew him.
Always sad to lose one of our Loft for Words hooped brothers.
However one day we will meet again by the railway track.
Sending all my love to Ted's family.
The Hat xx | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 15:19 - Oct 28 with 377 views | Northernr |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:16 - Oct 28 by Bluce_Ree |
What was the story behind him naming the site? Did Clive put it out for suggestions? Was the forum called something else before that?
Just wondering how it came about. |
It was QPRnet when it was on Rivals, but the name went with Ron and Simon when they went indie, so for a while it was just the QPR Rivals site but we had a thread to throw some ideas around and Ted came up with that ^^. Basically been my whole online identity ever since. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 15:32 - Oct 28 with 317 views | stantheman10 |
So sorry for your loss and the loss to QPR and this message board. RIP Ted | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 17:30 - Oct 28 with 113 views | marky67 |
charlie i am so sorry to hear this news, i had the pleasure many years ago meeting both ted and yourself along with mel and another fella from maidstone whose name i`ve forgotten.
ted was a lovely man and very knowledgeable not only about qpr but music as well and it was lovely spending time in his company.
my thoughts and prayers go to you and all your family at this sad time.
rip ted | | | |
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