| Tonight 00:18 - Oct 8 with 5084 views | wombat |
After a mother fecker of a week that win was so badly need on a personal level
As the song goes you make me happy when skys are grey! |  |
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| Tonight on 12:59 - Oct 8 with 4229 views | terryb |
I feel your pain & joy wombat.
Best wishes with whatever has caused your probmem. |  | | |
| Tonight on 18:31 - Oct 8 with 4070 views | Mick_S |
Same here, mate. |  |
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| Tonight on 19:00 - Oct 8 with 3975 views | nix |
Hope things look up soon. |  | | |
| Tonight on 12:31 - Oct 9 with 3717 views | wombat |
| Tonight on 19:00 - Oct 8 by nix |
Hope things look up soon. |
Thanks for the messages one and all , my mum passed away on weds after a short illness while living with dementia aged 96 , East Acton born and bred, you could see the flood lights barometer my bedroom , | |
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| Tonight on 12:36 - Oct 9 with 3699 views | WatfordR |
My sincerest condolences Will. |  | | |
| Tonight on 13:03 - Oct 9 with 3645 views | LythamR |
Sorry to hear that Will. Sincere condolences. |  | | |
| Tonight on 13:19 - Oct 9 with 3604 views | Hayesender |
Condolences to you and yours mate. Football with your mates is the best way to take your mind off of things for a few hours.
All the best x |  |
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| Tonight on 13:28 - Oct 9 with 3588 views | danehoop |
so sorry to hear that. Thoughts are with you mate. |  |
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| Tonight on 13:43 - Oct 9 with 3563 views | terryb |
Very sorry to read that Wombat.
RIP to your mother & best wishes to you & your family. | | | |
| Tonight on 13:58 - Oct 9 with 3537 views | SunnyVanGo |
Sorry to hear that wombat.
One of my pals lost his mum and last month his partner finished with him. It’s hit him hard and he’s withdrawn.
All he’s said to me is that he is sad all the time. Drinking each night to sleep etc.
I don’t know what to say or do. What is helping you wombat?
“Give it time mate” feels so empty.
Doesn’t help he’s a Liverpool fan just now either. | | | |
| Tonight on 14:14 - Oct 9 with 3505 views | stevec |
Sorry to hear that.
This may not help but under similar circumstances i took solace in the fact my mum was finally free of dementia.
All the best. |  | | |
| Tonight on 14:19 - Oct 9 with 3495 views | nix |
| Tonight on 13:58 - Oct 9 by SunnyVanGo |
Sorry to hear that wombat.
One of my pals lost his mum and last month his partner finished with him. It’s hit him hard and he’s withdrawn.
All he’s said to me is that he is sad all the time. Drinking each night to sleep etc.
I don’t know what to say or do. What is helping you wombat?
“Give it time mate” feels so empty.
Doesn’t help he’s a Liverpool fan just now either. |
Would he talk to someone Sunny? If he's depressed it might do him good to chat with a counsellor.
If he won't do that, validate how he feels. Don't try and talk him out of it in the first instance. Cos let's face it, it's pretty rubbish what he's going through. Yes it's really awful and I'm not surprised you feel bad. Things will get better but it's really tough time now. I'm sorry you're having such a terrible time and I'm here as a listening ear. Then message him from time to time. Sadness is just a nature part of the grieving process but it will get better, he just needs time. Drinking isn't the answer, it'll make him feel worse in the long run.
https://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/suicide/ some resources for people who are feeling depressed/suicidal.
Then when he's ready arrange some nights out that will cheer him up. Isolation will only make it worse. [Post edited 9 Oct 2022 14:23]
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| Tonight on 14:20 - Oct 9 with 3491 views | nix |
RiP your mum Wombat. Sorry for your loss. | | | |
| Tonight on 14:29 - Oct 9 with 3448 views | DWQPR |
Wombat, I’m sharing your pain at this time with the loss of my own Mum the other week. I will say it is bloody tough. She was also brought up in East Acton, Heathstan Road.
God bless you and may your Mum rest in peace. | |
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| Tonight on 16:08 - Oct 9 with 3344 views | Harbour |
May your Mum RIP and sending condolences to you and your family. Look after yourself Wombat losing your Mum is very hard I still miss mine and she has been gone 15 years sending best wishes to you. | | | |
| Tonight on 16:12 - Oct 9 with 3333 views | PinnerPaul |
Sorry to hear that. | | | |
| Tonight on 16:33 - Oct 9 with 3277 views | SunnyVanGo |
| Tonight on 14:19 - Oct 9 by nix |
Would he talk to someone Sunny? If he's depressed it might do him good to chat with a counsellor.
If he won't do that, validate how he feels. Don't try and talk him out of it in the first instance. Cos let's face it, it's pretty rubbish what he's going through. Yes it's really awful and I'm not surprised you feel bad. Things will get better but it's really tough time now. I'm sorry you're having such a terrible time and I'm here as a listening ear. Then message him from time to time. Sadness is just a nature part of the grieving process but it will get better, he just needs time. Drinking isn't the answer, it'll make him feel worse in the long run.
https://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/suicide/ some resources for people who are feeling depressed/suicidal.
Then when he's ready arrange some nights out that will cheer him up. Isolation will only make it worse. [Post edited 9 Oct 2022 14:23]
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Useful Nix.
He hasn’t said he’s depressed or suicidal.
Arranged a day out on a hill with him next month, getting him out the city feels right.
Appreciate you taking the time respond. | | | |
| Tonight on 16:41 - Oct 9 with 3252 views | BrianMcCarthy |
So sorry for your loss, wombat. Condolonces to you and to your family.
Ar dheis Dé go raibh a h-anam uasal. |  |
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| Tonight on 16:48 - Oct 9 with 3242 views | Mick_S |
So sorry, mate. Always hang on to the good stuff, it’s what I do regarding my Mum and Dad.
Good luck and respect. | |
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| Tonight on 17:01 - Oct 9 with 3223 views | Snipper |
So sorry to hear about your mum Will.
May she Rest In Eternal Peace. â¤ï¸â¤ï¸ |  | | |
| Tonight on 17:59 - Oct 9 with 3070 views | nix |
| Tonight on 16:33 - Oct 9 by SunnyVanGo |
Useful Nix.
He hasn’t said he’s depressed or suicidal.
Arranged a day out on a hill with him next month, getting him out the city feels right.
Appreciate you taking the time respond. |
No worries. Just that sadness all the time, withdrawal and drinking could be signs of depression. Or he could just be grieving.
Taking him out sounds like a good plan. You're being a good mate being concerned about him. | | | |
| Tonight on 19:05 - Oct 9 with 2999 views | loftboy |
| Tonight on 12:31 - Oct 9 by wombat |
Thanks for the messages one and all , my mum passed away on weds after a short illness while living with dementia aged 96 , East Acton born and bred, you could see the flood lights barometer my bedroom , |
Sorry to hear that Will, thoughts with you and your family. |  |
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| Tonight on 20:03 - Oct 9 with 2943 views | essextaxiboy |
Sorry for your loss Wombat , look after yourself and your family in the coming weeks . ETB |  | | |
| Tonight on 20:53 - Oct 9 with 2865 views | Paddyhoops |
Condolences wombat. | | | |
| Tonight on 23:00 - Oct 9 with 2758 views | Northolt_Rs |
Sorry for your loss Wombat. Lean on the Rs family on here for any support if needed. God Bless you and your Mum x |  |
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